Sir Howard & Lady
Miss M Muller
I attended the Royal Albert School, Camberley, Surrey. The Duke of Connaught was our Patron and amongst photographs of him dating to the late 1930's is one of him talking to Miss M. Muller and in the same photo is a lady I believe to be Lady Elphinstone.
I would like to know more about these ladies who were very pleasant to us boys, can you be of help.
Lady Elphinstone was indeed one of the local "big names". She lived at Pinewood (location) off College Ride. There is a memorial plaque in St Anne's Church, Bagshot, with the following inscription:
"In loving memory of Annie Frances daughter of W H Cole of West Woodhay, Newbury, Berks. Wife of Maj Gen Sir Howard Crauford Elphinstone VC. Lady of Grace of St John of Jerusalem. Born 3rd May 1856 died at Pinewood, Bagshot on 12th November 1938. Dearly loved by her children, grandchildren and greatgrandchildren."
This is the picture, taken about 1938, showing the Duke talking to Miss Muller. John thought that Lady Elphinsone is seated, though some doubt has been cast on this by another correspondent. The person squatting is Mr Paget, the Superintendent of the Orphanage. The occasion would have been tea on the Matron's lawn. Photo courtesy Vernon Billows.
Sir Howard Elphinstone was equerry to the Duke of Connaught and was very much older than his wife. He had been drowned at sea in 1890 at the age of 60.
I am told that Martyn Downer has written a book entitled "The Queen's Knight" about Sir Howard Elphinstone. 511i07
Silvia Wright has written : "I am one of the great grandaughters of Sir Howard and Lady Elphinstone. They had 4 daughters, and my grandmother (Mary Howard) was the youngest. She married Robert S. McClintock from Pinewood in 1909. She was only 2 when her father was drowned.
"Sir Howard started life in Riga, Livonia (now Latvia), and was one of the first VC's in the Crimean War.
"After that war he was chosen by Queen Victoria and Prince Albert to be the Governor to Prince Arthur, later Duke of Connaught. Their friendship was to last until Sir Howard was drowned. He built his house at Pinewood, College Road shortly after Bagshot Park was finished.
"I am happy to give any other information if anybody is interested."
Of Miss M. Muller, John tells me
"Her property was on the road to Camberley as far as I remember. One of my teachers, Ray Davies, wrote of her recently. 'Miss Muller was kindness itself and contributed most generously towards the Christmas presents and outings. She also used to give the most wonderful tea parties and organise games with the help of her many friends within the grounds of "Crosby Hill", her large house. The boys loved her and the days spent in the house and garden.'
"There you have it. She was absolutely lovely, so kind, thoughtful and gentle. I can even today close my eyes and think of her and remember the smell of her lavender perfume. She was an angel."
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One correspondent has asked whether Sir Howard, (as opposed to his wife) had any connection with the Royal Albert Orphan School. Do you know?
Wendy writes that her great aunt Anna Maria Powell (Stares) was a nurse to
the Elphinstone family. 8006i08
Lional Parr tells us that Lady Elphinstone's head gardener was Mr Southcott. xi08
Thanks to the late Alan Gosden for additional information.
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